Why Not Me?

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Why Not Me?

Author: Mindy Kaling

Publisher: Penguin Random House Audio Publishing Group, 2015 (Audiobook, 4hrs 57min)

Rating: 4owls

Thoughts: This fun little audiobook sure packed a lot of sound advice! Mindy does a fantastic job of making fun of situations she finds herself in while at the same time extracting life lessons and sharing them with her readers. I recommend listening to the audiobook as Mindy narrates it herself.

Memorable Quotes:

“Work hard, know your shit, show your shit, and then feel entitled. Listen to no one except the two smartest and kindest adults you know, and that doesn’t always mean your parents. If you do that, you will be fine.”

“People get scared when you try to do something, especially when it looks like you’re succeeding. People do not get scared when you’re failing. It calms them. But when you’re winning, it makes them feel like they’re losing or, worse yet, that maybe they should’ve tried to do something too, but now it’s too late. And since they didn’t, they want to stop you. You can’t let them.”

“People talk about confidence without ever bringing up hard work. That’s a mistake. I know I sound like some dour older spinster on Downton Abbey who has never felt a man’s touch and whose heart has turned to stone, but I don’t understand how you could have self-confidence if you don’t do the work… I have never, ever, ever, met a high confident person and successful person who is not what a movie would call a ‘workaholic.’ Because confidence is like respect; you have to earn it.”

“I want to say one last thing, and it’s important. Though I am a generally happy person who feels comfortable in my skin, I do beat myself up because I am influenced by a societal pressure to be thin. All the time. I feel it the same way anybody who picks up a magazine and sees Keira Knightley’s elegantly bony shoulder blades poking out of a backless dress does. I don’t know if I’ve ever seen my shoulder blades once. Honestly, I’m dubious that any part of my body could be so sharp and firm as to be described as a “blade.” I feel it when I wake up in the morning and try on every single pair of my jeans and everything looks bad and I just want to go back to sleep. But my secret is: even though I wish I could be thin, and that I could have the ease of lifestyle that I associate with being thin, I don’t wish for it with all of my heart. Because my heart is reserved for way more important things.”

Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? (And other concerns)

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Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? (And other concerns)

Author: Mindy Kaling

Publisher: Three Rivers Press, 2011 (Paperback, 219 pages)

Rating: 4owls

Memorable Quote:

“One friend with whom you have a lot in common is better than three with whom you struggle to find things to talk about.” p. 43